SEXcapades

everybody has a story.

kahit gaano pa katino yang mga kaibigan natin, pag kumagat ang dilim, o ang alak, o ang hormones...nagtratransform yan... it does not matter who we are, what we know or how intelligent we are. this is instinct vs reason.

sex doesn't always mean intercourse.. in this generation, it means a whole lot of things.

but i guess there is nothing wrong with that, really. it is really a part of growing up, and a test: kung hanggang saan ang control ng brain mo over your heart and/or other organs.

marami akong kaibigan na hindi ko alam kung bakit ang hilig magkwento sakin ng mga sexcapades nila. not that i mind, its just i'm worried. either they think i am THAT trustworthy, or am just equally horny. heehee.

there are different sides to stories.. merong magrelasyon talaga, merong between friends at mayron rin namang spontaneous.

yes, this is what boyfriends and girlfriends do.

I never believed this one friend of mine,would one day grow up and do stuff like this. i guess i've always thought of him as the "totoy" guy i met in college. he is very smart and likes to analyze... although he was always akward with girls. what touched me the most about his story was that he says there are certain things he would never do to his girlfriend, because that would mean disrespecting her. he says, no matter how aroused he is, he would always stop whatever it is they're doing when he feels the passion is turning into lust.

give it to this guy still be thinking at this point. ang galing.

so i asked him, what if it starts as passion then escalates to lust? And how does he know where one stops and one starts?

sexcapades between friends always turns into something bad.. always. except maybe in the euphoric universe where it turns out that you actually have romantic intrest in/or is sexually attracted to/ or am deeply in love with this certain friend. and vice versa, syempre. dream on, pare.

so NOT happening.

i cnt imagine how it must feel to have a |friend with benefits|. does it mean that the two of you can successfully compartamentalize where the line between the friendship and the benefits lie?

ano yon, one moment you're telling this guy about your serious, most depressing problems and the next moment, you guys are making out? if you guys are friends, there must be some kind of emotional bondage diba? and from what i know, friends with benefits require absolutely no emotional bond whatsoever. kasi that would actually require caring. can you do the naughty stuff sa taong you care about? whom you actually consider as a friend?